Where Do I Stay ?

So Now I know I am a soul. I am in this body for a while and after that time I am to leave this body. So the question arises where do I stay in my body ? Which part is place ? Where should I concentrate to see myself or talk to my self ?

Lets take an example again, Where does the driver of the Car remains ? Right in front ...right at the start ...Got it ?

So I (the soul) stay right in the middle of my forehead between my eyes. That's the place booked for myself. From there I control my thoughts ...my mind...My intellect ..and my sanskar...!! These are my biggest power.

I know first I need to take care of "my Mind" by using intellect in right way. I have to be happy first...If I want to develop happiness around me. I am the creator of happiness. I create it in my mind...and then it spreads all over. I am the creator....I already have happiness...Then Only I can give it to others..

Who Am I ?

Somebody Asked me

"What's Your Name ?"

"My Name is Vicky"


I thought  for a while. My Name is vicky , That what I know. But Do I know " Who Am I ?"


I am an Engineer. I am a profession. I am a son. I am a Husband....There are so many definitions I keep on giving to my self. But In real Who Am I ? 


Lets go a bit deep in this...


I am a soul. I have been assigned  this body. But during my stay in this body I forgot my real existence. 

I became body conscious...Today  I know What should I eat and What should not I..!!


I do  so much to maintain my body. I work for body. I exercise for my body. But I forgot Its just temporary stay. 


It does not mean that I should not care for my body. I should care for it. I should care for everybody in this world. But before I do that ....I need to care my self....The Soul..!!


So How to care for you soul ?


First And Foremost thing :   I need to know l am a soul and then I need to become Soul Conscious. What does that mean ? 


It means you must know you are a soul and you are the driver of this body. Just for a example...If you have a beautiful Car Just infront of your house but you dont have the driver to drive that car ...So he beauty or enjoy of the Car will be useless for you. First you should know you are the "Driver" of your body ....You are not the body .!! If you are not in the body...The same body will useless. So its you who are the soul..the driver of the body...!!




The soul ( I) ...have three strongest  power of mine:

• My Heart ( Mann)
• My Wisdom ( Buddhi)
• My Values ( Sanskar)

I should perfectly use my powers. For example , Everybody says my "Mann" is not shant ( my heart is not peaceful). What does it mean ?

It mean Me The soul , I am not controlling it. Because its something driven by me. Its something which is my power. I have to use it like a power. 


And if you see in real example of your life...Lets say ...You dont drink at all. But you have some friends who are daily drinkers. Now As you be with them all the time. One Day your heart will say...I should have it once...(This is your mann going out ...) But if you see at the same time you will see somebody saying to you..."No..Its something wrong.." Its you wisdom ( buddhi). You have to empower your heart by listening to your wisdom.


Types Of Values: (Sanskar)




A person's values come from four sources:

• Values from his last birth
• Values from His Family
• Values From his Friend/Circle 
• Valued from Satt Sang 

You must have seen somebody takes birth in a very rich home and somebody taken birth in a very 
poor family ...Its nothing else then " the fruit of his last birth values....Nothing Else"




But Again you see....You develop your valued or change your valued from your family and friends circle. And You can get positive or negative values from these sources....But you can only get positive values from the fourth source ( Satt sang) ..You can even change your values by satt sang and continues work on them.

Happiness - A Search Or Reality ?

Every body wants to be happy .....Is there any body who does not want to be happy ? I hope "No One". But Again if we ask ..Is there any body who is completely happy ? I hope " Very Few of us".

Just have a look back on life...

When I was a school , I was told to study hard ...to get good marks ...And It will bring happiness..
When I was out of school, I was told to study hard to get good college ...And It will bring Happiness..
When I was in college I was told to study hard to get a Good Job....And It will bring Happiness...

Now I came into job....Now I was told to work hard ..to get promotion there...And It will bring Happiness..
After One year I got promotion ...

And Before I was about to told any further...I thought to wait for  a second and think on that fact that ..

" Where Is my happiness ?"  Now I have got something else....I have to get married and then children ...And the same cycle for my children ...

Am I going to be happy any time ....Or its just like this for every body.

Okay, Now leave me, Come to people around me and have a look how many of them feel happy ?


1. My Office Peon: ( Income 5000 per month)


I asked him about happiness ...He told me he lives in a combined family and its the cause for him and he cant be happy in this situation.

2. My Employee Prakash: ( Income 10000 per month)

I asked him about his happiness. He told me he is not happy because his salary is too low. If he gets some increase in his salary he can be happy .

3. My Friend Rahul: ( Income 40k per month)

I asked him about his happiness, He said he is not fully happy because he has just got married. And he will take some time to set his wife in his family.


If we see above...if somebody has got money he needs something else. If somebody has got family he needs money.

So what is the way out ?

We will have a closer look and note some point here :

• Every body wants to be happy...No doubt in it.
• Every body is looking for happiness Somewhere....It can be money or can be other thing.
• Money cant make you happy as people with money need some other things to be happy.

Now As i go through above points...I come to the two more conclusions


I have been postponing my happiness ....Right ??


More precisely I have been searching it at wrong places?